Cure Your 'Excusitis'

Author : Dr Kem Thompson
CURE YOUR 'EXCUSITIS' RIGHT NOW
Dr Kem ThompsonThere's a deadly disease that keeps many very talented people
living way below their desired standards. This ailment keeps
many very intelligent people earning much less than they are
really worth. It has also been the cause of the early death
of many a business idea that held great potential.This disease is called 'excusitis'.It's a condition where the 'patient' finds all sorts of
excuses to justify their poor performance and results or lack
of action.In business, (see if you can relate to this), you may feel
you don't have what it takes to make it big in your industry.
Or you may feel embarrased to talk to your friends and family
about your new business venture. Or perhaps you feel you're
not smart enough to hang out (network) with the big players
in your field.Perhaps you feel you must attend a course of have an MBA or
PhD or some sort of degree in order to make it big.
Or you may feel that because you're just a small business, you
could never get a major contract.And because of all these (perceived) obstacles, you don't
move ahead.Those are symptoms of 'excusitis'. People that suffer from
this disease can often be heard to say 'I'd do this if only
I had this that or the other', or 'If only I were younger',
'or if only I didn't have the kids to look after', etc, etc.Notice how each of the 'symptoms' mentioned above keeps you down
and holds you steadfast in mediocrity? They're all excuses,
and the person making such excuses actually believes them to
be true.Remember, your beliefs determine your reality. If you believe
you're not worth £10,000 per month then that will be true
for you. Your brain will come up with all sorts of 'reasons'
to 'prove' that you're not worth it. But if you CHOOSE to
believe that you are worth £10,000 per month and more, if you
CHOOSE to believe that you can be the top distributor for your
company nationwide or worldwide, if you CHOOSE to believe that
you are great at what you do regardless of your qualifications,
then that, becomes true for you. Better still, the
way to achieve such great things becomes clear to you once you
start to think this way.And that is how to cure excusitis: CHOOSE to take responsibility
for your life. Refuse to make excuses. Develop a 'can-do'
attitude. Cultivate and CHOOSE beliefs that support your goals.In my work with clients, I emphasize changing beliefs and thought
patterns into empowering ones. This is called 'dealing with the
problem from its root cause'. Inevitably, the desired outcomes
result once the client has consistently practised empowering
thought patterns and got rid of disempowering ones such as
excusitis and its resultant insecurity.I encourage you to be true to yourself from today. If there's
something you've had it in your heart to do or achieve, yet you
have not done it for some reason (excuse) or another, identify
that excuse or reason, for it is destructive. Replace it with a
reason why you can do it, then go for it.If your goal is to win awards this year in your field or business,
refuse to entertain thoughts of why you can't do it. Rather start
thinking of why you can and why you will. Once you make that your
predominant mindset, the 'how to do' follows naturally.First things first: cure your excusitis.Here's a quote from *George Bernard Shaw* for you to think
about:"People are always blaming their circumstances for what they
are. I don't believe in circumstances. The people who get on
in this world are the people who get up and look for the
circumstances they want, and, if they can't find them,
make them."Dr Kem Thompson is a Success Coach, Speaker, Author.
She can help you achieve better results at work, business,
play, spiritual or in your social life.For resources you can use today to create a better life,
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